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Master’s Pieces

By Teri Wetzel

While on a retreat recently, the women of Main Street Church participated in a special project.

Each woman was given a small, 1” x 1 1/2” piece of paper with an image on it. The shapes were simple, although some contained more shades of color or angles than the others, but they seemed quite random on their own.

The women were tasked to reproduce their image, as exactly as possible, on a 5” x 7” canvas.

 

When completed, the tiles were gathered.

 

 

And arranged.

 

And slowly it begins to make sense.

 

That is how it is in the body of Christ, too.

We each have a part to play…a tile with a unique image to contribute.

On its own, each individual part may seem random, small, and without overall purpose. But as we are fitted together with other believers, our part, and the overall picture begins to take shape.

It is not until we have the context of those around us that our part makes sense.

Often we need to step back, stop focusing on just our own little tile, and see the bigger picture.

 

For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.  

Rom 12:4-5

The overall image is dependent upon each individual’s contribution. Interpretations of color and distribution of space can be quite different from person to person. Nevertheless, the larger picture is still discernible and powerful.

This is like the Body of Christ. 

Each person brings their own unique personalities, skills, and gifts. These do not look the same or match perfectly, as you can see i

n the picture– which highlights the need of the oil of the Holy Spirit and grace be liberally at work among us. And the need for continual growth toward the “ideal image” of Christ.

However imperfect we may be right now, when assembled by the Master, a beautiful picture or functioning community is born. Each piece is important to the whole and the whole is essential to the individual, just as God created it.

 

Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the 

whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love. 

Eph 4:15-16

So, where is your “tile”? Have you allowed the Lord to “fit” you in to the big picture, i.e. are you a part of a local body, or church? And are you “showing up” or bringing your unique gifts and talents into the mix, i.e., being who God has made you to be?

The more we are conformed to Christ, the more accurately we reflect His glory, the more perfectly we reproduce His image in the world.

 

One tile at a time.

*With special thanks to Sarah Wetzel, a “piece” the Master has beautifully fit into our family, for her help with this project and blog piece.

 

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Blessedly Dependent

By Teri Wetzel

“Our heart is the scene of a divine operation more wonderful than Creation. We can do as little towards the work as towards creating the world, except as God works in us to will and to do. God only asks of us to yield, to consent, to wait upon Him, and He will do it all. Let us meditate and be still, until we see how meet and right and blessed it is that God alone do all, and our soul will of itself sink down in deep humility to say: ‘I have waited for Thy salvation, O Lord.’”

Andrew Murray, Waiting On God

 

What strange and wonderful words these are!

 

My heart, the scene of a divine operation! (big smile)

 

I can do nothing toward it unless God works in me to “will and to do.” (ouch)

 

Yield, consent, wait. (really?)

 

Meditate and be still. (bit uncomfortable with that…)

 

How good and right it is that God alone can do all. (strangely satisfying and refreshing)

We live in a fast-paced, demanding culture. Go! Faster! Do! More! These messages bombard us from every angle, it seems. Being “productive” is often the measure of worth. To “yield,” “consent,” and  to “wait” are not typically valued or encouraged. Women don’t strive to be “dependent.” Meditating and “being still” seem foreign in our culture.

Yet these qualities are vital to live a surrendered life in Christ.

 

“In contemporary society our Adversary majors in three things: noise, hurry, and crowds. If he can keep us engaged in ‘muchness’ and ‘manyness,’ he will rest satisfied.” Richard Foster, Celebration of Discipline

 

I don’t know about you, but I don’t want the enemy of my soul resting satisfied with my distraction by noise, hurry, and crowds! Yet I feel those words so often define my days so much more so than “quiet,” “still.”

That is why I find it so important to pour over the sentiments of Andrew Murray and Richard Foster and, of course, the words of scripture:

 

My soul, wait silently for God alone, for my expectation is from Him.

Psalm 62:5

 

Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.

Psalm 37:7a

 

It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD.

Lamentations 3:26

 

Andrew Murray says, in Waiting On God, our “glory and blessedness” is not in being independent or dependent on ourselves, but in being dependent on a God of infinite riches and love.

He intends for each of us to have the joy of receiving every moment from His fullness.

 

Blessedly dependent.

 

This is how I want to live.

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Leaning on Christ

by: Teri Wetzel

As I sit down to write today, it is with a sigh in my heart. Resignation. I am weary. Weary in heart, in body, in emotion.

I feel spent.

The past weeks of kids’ activities, athletic events, practices, responsibilities at church, Bible study preparation, event planning, new work commitments, and the ramped up college search for our high school senior, not to mention managing, which really is something more akin to choreographing and synchronizing, the schedules for the five people currently living in our household, to match up with the limited abilities of our two aging, but (as of this moment) working vehicles, has taken a toll on me.

 

I need rest.

 

It is a recurring theme in my life over the last several years. Rest. Waiting on God. Trust. Surrender. It all is worked in there together somehow. And I need it and HIM all the more as each day unfolds.

 

I read this quote (emphasis mine) from Charles Spurgeon’s, All of Grace, in the Bible study the ladies of my church are doing.

 

“Trust is the lifeblood of faith; there is no saving faith without it. The Puritans were accustomed to explain faith by the word “recumbancy.” It meant leaning upon a thing. Lean with all your weight upon Christ. It would be a better illustration if I said: Fall at full length and lie on the rock of ages. Cast yourself upon Jesus. Rest in Him. Commit yourself to Him. That done, you have exercised saving faith.”

 

I smile within myself as I see, in my mind’s eye, snapshots of the recent additions to our family. (God will use anything and everything to get my attention and help me to understand His ways!)

 

Lean with all your weight upon Christ. 

Fall at full length and lie on the rock of ages.

Cast yourself upon Jesus.

Rest in Him.


Commit yourself to Him.

 

Isn’t God good to give us treasures in the words of Charles Spurgeon and kittens to illustrate the lessons and truths of God’s Word?!

 

The funny thing is, moments before these pictures were shot, these cats could very well have been tearing around the house, chasing each other or their own tails, jumping up on the back of a chair, climbing in the plants, batting at a piece of balled up paper, or the like.

 

Activity is not bad. I have things I have to do in each day. And I should give myself fully to each one.

 

But there must be a time for rest.

 

When it is time for rest, our kittens, as you can see, surely know how to oblige.

 

 

I am learning.

 

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Unveiling

By Teri Wetzel

God in His amazing kindness continues to inch the curtain back that seems to separate me from understanding. I’m often caught off guard by this unveiling. I might be marveling at the wonder of the clouds, or talking with a friend, or lost in worship.

This time, I am reading my Bible.

And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.” Mark 10:35

Prayer has been a subject that has nagged me for nearly two decades. I know, prayer is such a simple thing. We talk, He listens. We ask, He gives.

But that is just it! I want you to do for me whatever I ask of you!  From an oft quoted movie in our household, “Give me, give me, give me! I need, I need, I need!” (“What About Bob”)

I continue in Mark ….Bartimaeus, a blind beggar, the son of Timaeus, was sitting by the roadside. And when he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to cry out and say, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!”   Mark 10:46-47

I’m struck, like never before, by the differences in these two requests. In the first, the subject is self; I want, I need, I think this is important.

But in the second, the blind man, perhaps keenly aware of his deficit, calls out with an understanding of the One he is calling to, “Son of David, have mercy on me!”

Bartimaeus is not dictating how Jesus should respond to him, he is calling out for whatever mercy the Lord chooses to give.

And Jesus stopped … and said to him, “What do you want me to do for you?” And the blind man said to him, “Rabbi, let me recover my sight.” And Jesus said to him, “Go your way; your faith has made you well.” And immediately he recovered his sight and followed him on the way. Mark 10:49-52

At Bartimaeus’ cry, Jesus stops what He is doing. Amazing enough. But then what does He do? Jesus asks Bartimaeus what he wants Him to do for him. It’s the same thing James and John (and all of us) want from Jesus, isn’t it (what they/we want), yet so very different, too.

 

“Before you pray, bow quietly before God, just to remember and realize who He is, how near He is, how certainly He can and will help. Just be still before Him and allow His Holy Spirit to waken and stir up in your soul the childlike disposition of absolute dependence and confident expectation. Wait on God as a living Being, as the living God who notices you and is just longing to fill you with His salvation. Wait on God until you know you have met Him. Prayer will then become so different.” (Andrew Murray, Waiting On God, Day 4)

“So different.”

Be still my heart, focusing on who Jesus is, knowing He notices me, and longs to fill me with His salvation. Then, may I call out to Him, like Bartimaeus, “Jesus, have mercy on me!”

And He will.

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A New Year Dawns

By Teri Wetzel

Open my eyes that I may see
wonderful things in your law.

Psalm 119:18

I am not big on New Year’s resolutions. I never have been. Although the idea of it can be intriguing, I know a tiny percentage of resolutions are actually carried out (or even remembered) by the end of the year. As I sit down to put words on the page for my first post of 2012, I run across the text of this hymn saved awhile back as something worth looking at again. I’m struck by how fitting it is as a New Year’s anthem– a sort of prayer of dedication echoing my desire to become more of God’s desire for me.

So here it is, not a resolution, but an anthem, a song of devotion for this new year, appropriately (for a blog written by and primarily for women) penned by a woman…

Open My Eyes, That I May See

Clara H. Scott (1895)

Open my eyes, that I may see
Glimpses of truth Thou hast for me;
Place in my hands the wonderful key
That shall unclasp and set me free.

Silently now I wait for Thee,
Ready my God, Thy will to see,
Open my eyes, illumine me,
Spirit divine!

Open my ears, that I may hear
Voices of truth Thou sendest clear;
And while the wave notes fall on my ear,
Everything false will disappear.

Silently now I wait for Thee,
Ready my God, Thy will to see,
Open my ears, illumine me,
Spirit divine!

Open my mouth, and let me bear,
Gladly the warm truth everywhere;
Open my heart and let me prepare
Love with Thy children thus to share.

Silently now I wait for Thee,
Ready my God, Thy will to see,
Open my heart, illumine me,
Spirit divine!

I cannot help but notice the structure of the hymn has God opening eyes and ears before  the mouth. And following each request is silent waiting upon Him. Yielded. Available. Receptive to divine illumination.

Maybe this order is purposeful, the writer knowing it’s NOT the way most of us (yes, especially us women!) naturally approach matters. Mouths seem eager to jump into action before the eyes and ears have a chance to offer input. And waiting… well, that is just not being productive, right?!

Yes, this anthem seems a great way to open a new year, indeed, cultivating much looking and listening, anchored in silent waiting, then wisely “bearing the warm truth” of His Word.

Join me, ladies, as I cry, O, Lord, may it be so in me!

 

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Waiting for Him…

By Teri Wetzel

As I’m writing this piece about Advent, I’m sitting in a very non-holiday-like venue, an auto repair shop, waiting for four new tires to be installed on our car.

I’m struck by how little we wait these days, or how little we like to wait, and how little value it is given.

Faster is better in most cases.

We have convection and microwave ovens to reduce the time required to cook our food, and electric kettles, so that water boils even quicker. We have express check out lines at the grocery store to ensure we don’t get stuck behind someone with an overstuffed cart, and drive-through lanes, because fast food is much too slow if you have to get out of the car and walk in to order! We have 10 minute oil changes, quick cooking oats, and instant potatoes.

Immediate gratification is the name of the game. Waiting is bad. Having what you want now is very good!

That may be the view of our culture, but the season of Advent, as previous posts have said, teaches something quite different…if we are listening.

Waiting is valuable.

In fact, I’ve found, some aspects of God’s great provision only come through the purifying, sometimes painful, but always productive process of waiting.

Waiting on God is an attitude…that humility of heart that looks for Jesus in every moment of every day. In everything we do…grand or mundane.

It’s being aware of Him. Looking for His Hand. Listening for His Voice in it all.

It’s continually surrendering to His call– to lay your life down for your husband, your children, your friend, your neighbor…for Him.

And waiting on God is also time set apart for being still before the Him. Listening for Him. Being with Him. Quiet.

I have been struck recently by images of glassy smooth lakes.

Still waters reflect glory and majesty in striking, profound ways.

I wonder if it is not the same with us. When we still and quiet our hearts and minds before the glorious Lord and Master of the Heavens, is His majesty not reflected a little more clearly us in?

Oh, Lord, let it be so. Let us reflect Your image in striking and profound ways this Christmas.

As the candles are lit, the songs sung, the houses decorated, the cookies baked, the shopping conquered, whatever goes into holiday preparation, let’s not lose sight of Jesus! It sounds silly, but I know it happens so easily. We get caught up in the trimmings of the season and fail to open the gift.

Cultivate the anticipation, the expectation, the longing for Emmanuel, God With Us. Wait for,  look for His presence. He is the gift.

This longing, this looking for, this waiting should mark each day throughout the year…not just Advent…but what a beautiful time to begin or renew this posture of waiting and stillness before the Lord.

Merry Christmas

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Cracked Pots

By Teri Wetzel

Funny how different things look from God’s perspective than from the world’s. I mean, when we have our minds renewed by His Spirit, through His Word, how differently we see things. The world values the beautiful, talented, powerful, perfect things of this life…or the fantasy of those things, at least.

This ungodly pressure can be intense in the church, too. Pressure to produce perfect children. Have perfect marriages and friendships. Keep perfect homes. Quote perfect scriptures, etc. After all, doesn’t the Bible exhort us to “Be perfect, even as your heavenly Father is perfect”?!

But I am freed from the crushing weight of compulsion to produce something I KNOW I never can–perfection in myself– when I read …

“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 ESV

 

 

My mind is renewed! God values brokenness. And His power working in me.

We spend so much time and effort trying to repair our own cracks, don’t we? Or hiding them from others, creatively camouflaging them so they won’t be recognized. Or dressing them up in some socially acceptable way. It can be exhausting.

The truth that sets us free is that we can GLORY in our weakness. Yes, we can embrace our weakness. We can stop trying to deny or hide it! We can share it with others, even. Because His strength is made perfect in our weakness and the light of Christ actually shines brighter through our brokenness than through our strength.

For what we proclaim is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, with ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. 

But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us. 

We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies. 2 Corinthians 4:5-10 ESV

I am a cracked pot! An ordinary, imperfect, jar of clay. Marred and flawed but, amazingly and graciously, used by God to display His surpassing power and the light of His glory!

A weak, broken vessel transformed into a beautiful lantern by the power and glory of Christ.

 

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Let Faith Arise

By Teri Wetzel

Today the words of this powerful song will do the talking for me. I have been gripped by the truth it represents. If you are in the midst of challenges, heartbreaks, illness…life that you don’t understand, take a moment to drink in the melody and the Spirit of the One who holds all things together as you listen to this song…

http://www.godtube.com/watch/?v=FJ0J9CNU

 

Out of devastation, deep hurt, disappointment the God of Hope restores.

 

In the hard place I lift my hands. A simple act that becomes a declaration that He IS—Faithful. My Refuge. Strength.

I lift my hands—an acknowledgment of my desperate need for Him—a  surrender to His sovereign plan— trust.

 

Beauty rising from ashes. Fertile ground for faith. Sacred to the Lord. Worship.

 

Let faith arise!

 

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The Long Way Around OR The Short Way Home

By Teri Wetzel

I drove to the park today to meet a friend. I was late. Even though the park is only a few short miles from my house, I took the LONG way. You see, my friend wanted to meet in a different location within the park than I normally go to.  Although I’ve lived in the area for over 20 years, I’m embarrassed to confess I still get tripped up sometimes knowing the best– you know, the fastest, shortest, most efficient way to get places. Most roads in our area are not laid out on a grid, they do a bit of meandering this way and that, creating shortcuts and alternate routes for almost everything!

Anyway, there are several different options to get to the park and apparently, I chose the LONG way around. Why did I do this, you ask? Didn’t you already tell us you’ve lived in this area for over two decades?! Well, yes, I did and the best answer I can give is I didn’t know the big picture!

I should have looked at a map.

Imagine that?! Simple, right?! If I had just looked at the park in context with the surrounding area, I would have easily assessed the potential routes and clearly seen which one was best. But I did not do this – and I ended up taking the long way—the way long way around.

As I drove, berating myself for this obvious blunder, and the rudeness of being late, I felt the gentle nudge of the Spirit…

 “Isn’t this so much like life?”

And He was right! We often end up taking the long way around because we don’t know the big picture. (Which usually impacts those around us, too!) We step off into life, or into our day, before we’ve taken the time to study the map, and we end up adding precious time to a drive that should have been very short.

I thought about how much better things are when I take the time to pour over the “map” of my faith, the Bible.

How many of you know the path of your life is not laid out on a neat, tidy, predictable grid? I know mine isn’t! Even though I’ve been living this Christian life for, oh, over 30 years now, I still do better with daily refreshing in the Word of God.

I need the big picture.

I need to see Jesus. And get to know Him. More and more. And see His purpose. Then I better understand which direction to set off in, which makes getting to destinations along the way much less fraught with annoying detours, missed turns, and frustrating late arrivals.

So, after apologizing to my gracious friend for being tardy and walking around the lake together, I took the short way home!

I hope you will, too.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Psalm 119:105

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Palms Down Faith

By Teri Wetzel

Life is a tricky thing sometimes. Navigating the twists and turns, the joys and the disappointments can be precarious. The older I get, the more I realize there are really so many things in life I don’t understand, so many things I hold out to God with a question in my heart.

Cast your burden on the LORD,
and he will sustain you;
he will never permit
the righteous to be moved.

Psalm 55:22

I rely on this verse at times of uncertainty. God wants us to cast our burden, need, desire, care, question, or whatever is troubling, upon Him—that is to throw it to Him. That means we have to let it go. You cannot hold it, if you cast it away.

And if you do not hold it, it cannot hold you.

And that is really what our Lord wants. To have nothing hold us but our passion and desire for Him. Does that mean we are never to ask Him for things, for help, for healing? Of course not! I’ve read somewhere that we have not because we ask not…He does want us to ask. But I think He wants us to ask and leave it with Him. To hold our dreams and desires and even things we believe He has promised us with an open hand to Him. Not with a tightly clenched fist.

In fact, I read in a little book, given to me by a friend, (The Cycle of Victorious Living, by Earl and  Hazel Lee) about committing things to the Lord. Earl and Hazel were missionaries for many years in India. In the Marathi tongue a free translation of, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him …” Psalm 37:5 says “Turn what you are and what you have over to God—palms down!”

In other words, you take your request, question, desire, dream, etc., and offer it to God, open-handed, but not just holding the object out for God to take if He wishes…

…but with your palm facing down.

You cannot hold on to anything that way. You are entrusting—committing—surrendering—abandoning—it ALL to Him. Proving your trust in Him. Casting your care upon Him. Committing your way to Him. Surrendering to His will. Not trying to convince God that you know the best answer, or the best way, or the best time for Him to act. You leave it to Him. Allowing Him to act as God.

So often, in our humanity, we try to do things on our own. And so often we have no idea we are doing it! If I only hold on long enough…then God will give me what I want. As if that proves I am good enough to be blessed. Or somehow earned the answer to my prayer. There is so much self in that!

Maybe part of the purpose in letting us struggle with the big questions in life is so that we ultimately realize that we want HIM more than we want any answer to prayer. Or perhaps it helps us to see that we don’t. To see that something else has taken His rightful place in our lives. The tough ones to spot and root out are when the good things, desire for ministry opportunities, health, mates, children, etc. have become idols, usurping the Lord’s position in our lives.

I don’t know. I don’t have it all worked out yet. Maybe I never will, but I think great freedom, joy and power lies in surrender…in our giving up, laying down and trusting everything to Jesus. It is not just something nice we Christians say—it is something we must do. Every day. Because we so easily slip back to the altar and retrieve the things we’ve laid there.

It is not the strength of my faith, or my resolve, or my ability at all. It is the Lord who sustains me as I continue to surrender all to Him.

So cast your burden on the Lord today. Throw it to Him. Let go of it—palms down so it cannot hold on to you. His hands are waiting to receive it all. Abandon yourself completely to Him. And He will sustain you.

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