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Rest in God’s Presence

By Beth Hamstra

There are many different kinds of rest.  We have explored several of these this month during our Focus Fridays:

In addition to these helpful forms of rest that the Completely Devoted contributors have challenged us with, there are a few others:

  • Forced rest from sickness or fatigue caused by burn out
  • Laziness
  • Slothfulness

Obviously we want to try to avoid these ungodly habits.  As I was considering this post about rest the Holy Spirit reminded me of a form of rest that is also a pursuit.  Rest, whether it is from our hard work, trusting in God’s sovereign control, or focusing on God’s grace instead of our own human effort, should be active and not passive.  Let me explain.  In our rest we are meant to pursue God’s presence.

An old mentor of mine once gave this helpful example.  At the time, she was the director of missions at the organization we used to work for.  In the summer time we would take thousands of teenagers overseas and the days of training and debriefing were quite hectic from early morning until late at night.  Just imagine a campus crawling with young people and you are the one in charge of getting them fed, trained, and motivated, not to mention helping them stay healthy and hydrated, dealing with home-sickness and encouraging them to follow all the rules…whew! I get tired just remembering those days!

In one of our leadership sessions my mentor instructed us on how to find rest from the craziness.  She told us how she would steal away for moments throughout the day to rest in the presence of the Lord.  For her it meant taking 15 minutes between sessions to go to her room and lay on her bed – not to sleep, but to rest in the presence of the Lord.  She would shut out everything going on around her and all the demands on her time and she would THINK about the Lord.  She would pray silently welcoming his presence to surround her.  Sometimes she would just meditate on scripture.

I’m sure you’ve heard of the analogy that spending time in the presence of the Lord is like plugging into our power source.  We must connect with the Holy Spirit while we rest.  You could spend an entire day of “Sabbath” watching TV and taking naps and never feel the refreshment that comes from a few moments of restful fellowship with the Holy Spirit.

I encourage you to take some time today to REST.  Actively pursue his presence in your life.  Commune with the Holy Spirit; he is always with us.  Sometimes we just need to stop and acknowledge his presence.

 

Each month our Friday posts centre around a particular issue. This month we are focussing on Building Kingdom Friendships.

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The Weight of the Words

By Niki Deutsch

I once had a pair of cheap shoes that I wore a lot longer than I should have.  At one point, there was a rip in the canvas top, the support was long gone, and – they were really stinky.

I’m not sure why I kept this particular pair of shoes when I had several other newer, more comfortable, supportive shoes that didn’t stink.  One reason might be that my new shoes required a little bit more effort to get them on – I couldn’t just slip my foot in the new shoes.  My old pair had been so easy to slide into when I wanted to quickly run out to get the mail, or check on my kids outside.  Sometimes, I’d forget I was wearing them, and get trapped in the car with my stinky shoes.  It was especially bad when anyone else was trapped in my car with me.  At those moments I’d wonder why I don’t toss those old, unsupportive, stinky shoes out.

There is an aspect of life that can be like wearing those stinky shoes – something that’s easy to slip into and difficult to toss out of my life:

Legalism.

I catch legalism sneaking into my subconscious – prompting me to respond to my inability to perfectly follow the law with more striving!  Work harder!  Have I done enough to earn His favor?  Are the scales tipping in my favor yet?  I can have a freeing encounter with Jesus just a few days prior, and still can find myself there again – striving, measuring, and stressing out.

I slip on the easy, stinky shoe of legalism quite by accident.  I’d like to say, “Hey, I can’t help it!  I’m a “first-born”!  It’s my natural instinct to demand justice – payment for sin or points earned for good deeds.  But, unfortunately, it’s probably only my prideful, sinful side refusing (again) to receive His free gift of Grace, that none should boast (Ephesians 2:8-9).  Living in legalism is a hard way to live – this pattern of using a scale to measure my “goodness” or my holiness – a constant striving.

When I find myself in this place, I wonder why don’t I toss out this foolish way of thinking?

Sometimes, it seems easier to put on the old, rather than the new.

How often do I measure and strive, strive and measure forgetting His Yoke is easy and His burden is light?  

This life of learning to live in freedom and rest is a little like putting on my new and better shoes.  In doing that lighter work of submitting my life to the LORD, I am completely supported by The One who really can bridge the gap between where I am and where I should be.  I need to do the light, easy work, so I can rest.

Come to me all who are weary and I will give you rest.  Come to me and rest from all the striving to save yourself.  Put on the new shoes so your feet are fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.  The gospel of peace…the work has been done.

And yet…Jesus does call us to “be perfect, perfect as I am” (Matthew 5:48).   So what do we do?  Our acts of righteousness are like filthy rags in the sight of God.   We cannot measure up to His perfection, no matter how hard we try.  We need His Mercy and Grace!

Aah…His beautiful Grace! 

I love Out Of The Gray’s song: “The Weight of the Words”.   If you have a chance to listen to the actual song, I recommend it.  The beautiful lyrics reveal how we can still rest – not struggle so hard, while obeying His commands – even if imperfectly.

“The Weight of the Words” by Out Of The Gray

Sitting at the table in a kitchen conversation
You spilled the words you read just yesterday
He said, “Be perfect, perfect as I am”
“How can this be done,” you ask, “when every time I try to be
Someone with such a mastery, I see how weak I am?”
I said, “See the sweet dichotomy
Mercy mirrored in the face of impossibility”

The weight of the words
Can crush you, they can break you
Or they can heal and they can take you to the throne of grace
The weight of the words
Will lead you like a beacon
When your strength is finally beaten by the weight of the words

And so the constant struggle to remind each other of the fact
That the rest is easy on the shoulders of the One who came
To pay for what we lack
Now our welcome burden is to strive with humble gratitude
We cannot take lightly what He carried on His back
Can you feel the gravity
Compelling mystery
Life for those who will believe

The weight of the words
Can crush you they can break you
Or they can heal and they can take you
To the throne of grace
The weight of the words
Will lead you like a beacon
When your strength is finally beaten by the weight of the words

The rest is easy
His rest is easy
Are you weary?

Can you hear the words that lift the burden?
Do you feel the gravity?
Compelling mystery -
Life for those who will believe

The weight of the words
Can crush you they can break you
Or they can heal and they can take you to the throne of grace
The weight of the words
Will lead you like a beacon
When your strength is finally beaten by the weight of the words

 

 

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Each month our Friday posts centre around a particular issue. This month of August we are focussing on the topic of rest.

 

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Rest for the Weary

By Micki Magee

I’m not sure why I’m being trusted to write a blog post about rest. I don’t know about you but I’m exhausted from lack of it!

My husband works full-time in a high-pressure job with the Dean of the College of Arts and Letters at Michigan State University, so I barely hear from him during the day and he often brings work home. He’s in school getting his Masters degree part-time right now too so his nights are spent studying and writing papers. If it weren’t for our “date nights”, which we guard like gold, I’d hardly have time to kiss his stubbly cheek.

Because of that, my job includes 99% of the housework and 90% of the childcare. We have a three-year-old and a two-year-old, both boys (doesn’t that make you tired just reading it??). I also work part-time for the Michigan Association of School Boards. I often bring my work home too.

I’m not complaining. I love my beautiful life. I’m just TIRED.

There’s really just no time for rest in my house. Nope. Not at all!

You see, our dishwasher is broken so if I don’t do the dishes at least every other day, we get ants. If I don’t make sure to keep on my three-year-old’s potty training and empty the potty chair right away, my two-year-old plays in it like it’s his own personal water table. If I don’t keep up with the laundry, it piles up and our bedroom starts to smell like my husband’s feet. If I don’t keep a close eye on my children, they get bored and paint each others’ faces with diaper cream. And if I don’t clean our floors often enough we’ll all die of the plague.

Wait… maybe that’s an exaggeration…

But still, there’s just no time for rest in my house.

And yet, here I am writing about rest for this blog. So what do I do? I go to the bible and see if the “experts” have some answers for me. As usual, God taps me on the shoulder and says “Micki… you beautiful, silly girl…” as he shows me his truth.

God wants us to rest.

1 Kings 19 – Elijah, so exhausted by his life that he’s ready to die, takes a nap. And when he wakes up, God has given him the strength to walk for 40 days. (I have trouble walking a few miles without getting winded and finding myself sitting on a bench at Twisters, our local ice cream shop instead).

Or there’s Exodus 33:14. And Joshua 21:44. And 1 Chronicles 22:9.

So many times in the bible, the Lord promises to give his people rest from their enemies – and he does! Not just rest from their stressful, busy lives  – which, frankly, make my “exhausting” life seem like a vacation – but rest from enemies who want to kill them! He protects them so steadfastly and certainly that they can REST when there are people out there ready to take their lives!

How, then, do I think that somehow my life will fall apart if I take some rest myself?

We won’t get Ebola from a dirty floor, my kids won’t die from a messy house. I won’t get fired if I take a fifteen minute break at work. But what WILL happen if I take a moment to rest in God is a transformation of both my physical and mental state. A little rest in him goes a long, long way.

Matthew 11:28 – “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

John 16:33 – “I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

You can trust that God has it all under control. Jesus has overcome the world. He did it for us, so that we might have peace. Maybe, just maybe, everything will be okay if we lie down and take a nap.

 

Each Friday at Completely Devoted, we consider a specific issue. This month we are focussing on what it means to rest.

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Rest is God’s Design

By Faith Rawley

By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. Genesis 2:2-3

Rest is something that God himself has designed for us and built into the very fabric of creation. Right from the beginning God modeled the need for rest making it clear that we also are to live out of rest. Creation needs rest – you don’t have to look far to see this demonstrated in certain parts of nature! As the seasons pass by we see plants, flowers and trees not dying but resting in their activity of producing. Even some animals go into long periods of hibernation in their yearly cycles as they preserve themselves and their store of resources for the next year ahead.

Rest is more than just an option for those who get tired or weary but it is part of God’s design for us. Often I have fallen into the trap of viewing rest as a reward for having completed a season of busyness. But God’s intention is that physical and spiritual rest would be a regular part of our lives – daily, weekly, yearly – not something we just fit in when we have finished all activity.

I spent many formative years of my life living in America and one thing I admire about Americans is how hard-working they generally are. I had a really good job working as an administrative assistant for an auditing company. I started out being the ‘copy-girl’ and the person who did everyone else’s shredding. Eventually I was organizing corporate retreats for the national branches, helping to set up a new database system for the company and other responsibilities. I was so blessed to have this job. I would have to get up to go to work at 5.30am to be in to start work at 7am – usually not finishing then till 5pm or later! Other colleagues got in earlier than I did and left later, after I had finished my day’s work. I then moved back to the UK and found that even though typically our working days don’t start as early as the Americans, we’re not that far behind in the amount of time we work. The expectation of hard work being part of the normal life exists in the UK also. I started working for the church I was a part of and the sense of responsibility to serve God and His people was now being added to the routine of hard work I had already become used to. With all of the ‘work’ I was doing I began to feel resentful for serving if I didn’t receive recognition and worse still I began to be judgmental about others who seemed to not work or serve as much as me.

My wonderful church leader spotted this and graciously pointed out that I was not a person at rest. He had the right to say that, as I was working for him at the time. Unknowingly, underneath the outward appearance of a diligent worker I was actually someone who felt my value came from what I did and achieved. I felt that the harder I worked, the more activities I was involved in, the more church areas I was seen to be serving in, the better I was doing as a ‘Christian’ and ultimately the more God would love me. But God’s love is not based on what we do….it’s unconditional! I believed that hard work and unrelenting service was what God wanted from me….I missed the fact that in the beginning he had planned for me to have rest. To be like Him, a person at rest! I see now that by not acknowledging the need for physical, emotional and spiritual rest I was actually trying to live against God’s design for my life. No wonder life was a struggle!

God gave the Sabbath to the Israelite people to encourage them to take time to refocus on God and to be refreshed in Him. The Sabbath was never designed to be a legalistic way of saying you can do no work but it was an encouragement to rest and be refreshed rather than stay in a constant state of ‘doing’. So I’m not saying that we shouldn’t work hard nor do I want to encourage laziness. But I do believe that God has given us rest as a necessity. It is not a sign of weakness or lack of reliance on God to take days off!

Hebrews 4:9-11 says,

 There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his. Let us, therefore, make every effort to enter that rest, so that no one will perish by following their example of disobedience.

I believe the rest that the writer of Hebrews is talking about here is ultimately a spiritual rest, but I am also convinced that the amount of physical rest a person gets is an indication of how secure they are in knowing God’s approval of them. Physically we need rest to re-strengthen and re-energize. Taking time to rest can also help us to get priorities back in order – the priority of time with our spouses, time with family, time with God! As we physically make a decision to build rest time into our lives we also honor God by giving Him the space to bring rest to our souls. There is a rest that God has prepared for us – a rest from striving, a rest from trying to live up to expectations, a rest from thinking our works are good enough. We then find ourselves resting in His peace, resting in His acceptance and resting in His grace which is sufficient for us.

Each Friday at Completely Devoted, we consider a specific issue. This month we are focussing on what it means to rest.

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