By Faith Rawley
I recently had the joy of going to stay with my brother Sam and his wife Anna and their new little baby, Wesley.

They live in St. Louis, Missouri (in America, for those who don’t know) so I don’t get to see them that often. Ben, my husband, was with us and my second brother Michael.


It was an amazing opportunity of just sharing quality time with each other, getting to catch up on each other’s day to day lives and reminiscing over common, funny memories. As I spent time with them, I began to appreciate them all afresh and it hit home what a blessing it is to be in ‘Family’.
We are all a part of some family, in one way or the other, but no two families are exactly alike. Families can differ based on size or number of people. There are different combinations of people, for example, all female or male children or a mixture of both sexes. Some have more than one set of parents and grandparents, some only have one of these representatives. Families can live very close in proximity to one another or they can span vast distances. But each family is unique and there are things to be celebrated in that special collection of people.
One thing that strikes me about families is how we share characteristics with each other, no matter how insignificant these may be. My family all have this ability to pout our lips up so that the top lip touches the nose. My nine month old nephew, Wesley, has already started to display this feature in his facial expressions, which was really quite fascinating to see.


We do share characteristics and features with each other, whether that’s physical or temperamental or just in terms of the way we do things. These traits help to identify us as belonging together and distinguish us from other families.
I really appreciate the encouragement I receive from the other members of my family, especially my parents, and the belief they have in me, which doesn’t change depending on circumstances. I think this is because they’ve known me through the good and bad. They’ve seen my moody, unpleasant moments and they’ve seen me broken hearted and hurt. But they’ve also seen my times of brilliance and this is why they keep encouraging me even when I don’t see the greatness myself. They know the potential that’s in me and they want to draw this out.

The thing I love the most about my family is that I feel the most at home when I’m with them, even if we’re not in our physical home. We moved around quite a lot when I was younger, so our ‘home’ changed quite frequently. But in each new house that we’ve lived in, the ‘home’ feeling was quickly established because of the people I was with. It’s their presence and the history that we have that means I can be totally myself with them and not worry what they will think. They’ll be honest with me if I’m being annoying, or feeling pitiful or just not talking a lot of sense. But they also let me be silly and funny without laughing at me in a mean way. There’s a rest in just being able to ‘be’ who I am with them, no pretence.
I know that I am very blessed with my family situation and I’m so thankful for that. But what I’m even more thankful for is that I’ve been brought into God’s family.
Ephesians 1 tells us – ‘Even before He made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into His own family by bringing us to Himself through Jesus Christ. This is what He wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure…….Furthermore, because we are united with Christ, we have received an inheritance from God,for He chose us in advance, and He makes everything work out according to his plan’.
We don’t really get a choice in who is part of our family but how wonderful it is to know that God chose us, even though he also saw all of the mistakes we’d make and the problems we’d have. He saw us before we were created, before the world was created even, and He planned to include us into His family. To make us His children and give us His name. To share His inheritance with us!
Because we’re part of His family we share characteristics with Him. We take on His nature and as His Spirit works in our lives we display more features that reflect His nature and personality. This is how we’re identified as belonging to Him….it still astounds me that He not only wants to associate with me but also wants people to know Him through me. He has forever connected Himself to me through Christ, and he’s not ashamed of this connection.
This family in Christ is one of ultimate encouragement. Jeremiah 29:11 says, ‘“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”’ God has good plans for each one of us and he is committed to seeing these produced in our lives…..so He constantly speaks to us His words of encouragement that produce life and faith if we will receive and believe them. This family that we have, Father, Jesus and Holy Spirit, are always smiling over us, not frowning, releasing us and approving of us to be who we’ve been made to be.
In this family we can be totally secure and at home. We can be honest with God and know that nothing we say or do will shock Him or disappoint Him. I’ve often experienced my Father laughing with me when I do something a bit ‘stupid’ but I know He’s working with me to see the fruit of the Spirit produced in my life.
He allows us to try new things, even it means making mistakes, and He will always be there to pick us up and get us back on track to start again.
In this month of ‘Thankfulness’, I’m giving God thanks for my earthly family but also I’m giving thanks for being part of His family!
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